I mentioned Jeff in an earlier post and said we experienced many "first together. We met at the age of 4. Jeff's family was what I guess you would call upper middle income today but at the time they just seemed "very rich." Jeff's father was a pharmacist and worked in a drug store that Jeff's grandfather owned. In fact he owned at least two drug stores and a lot of real estate. At one time he was Mayor of Decatur. The family were members of Druid Hills Country Club and we would spend everyday of the summer there around the pool. This is where Jeff and I both learned to swim. After swimming all morning we would sit at a table on the patio overlooking the pool and order anything we wanted to eat. We never needed any money, we would just sign our names. I can remember going to the drug store at night with Jeff's Dad, Frank, to close the store. This was in the days when there were soda fountains in all drug stores. After the doors were locked and while Frank would go into the back to tally the books, Jeff and I would go behind the soda fountain and make ice cream concoctions mixing everything behind that counter in them. Have you ever noticed when your a kid, everything with ice cream in it taste good. At that time of my life, I thought the coolest thing in the world would be to grow up to be the best soda jerk ever. Ohhhhhhh,,,,the dreams of a kid. At another time I wanted to grow up to be a garbage man because it looked like so much fun to hang on the back of the garbage truck and ride through the alleys where we played. Of course even at this young age I knew I could never be a garbage man because they were all black men and I was white. I decided because I couldn't be a garbage man, I was being discriminated against even though I had no idea the meaning of the word at that time. So I would just say "Life isn't fair."
As I've gotten older and think back on my life, I still think" life isn't fair. " The difference between now and when I was young is the definition of fair has changed.
At a young age, fair was what I desired. When I think of fair now I think of what I deserve. When I think of my wife and kids, my grandchildren, my parents and really all of my family. When I think of my health and the health of my family. When I think that we've always had food to eat and shelter over our heads. When I think of all the friends that have been in my life and all the wonderful times I've shared with these friends and family. When I think of this great country I live in and the freedom I have. When I think of God's love for me and in fact all of us, of His mercy and providence and grace. When I think of His patience and forgiveness. When I think of His willingness to provide a way of salvation for me through His Son Jesus Christ. I can say with a strong conviction, "LIFE ISN'T FAIR."
I'VE RECIEVED MUCH BETTER THAN I DESERVE.
THANK YOU GOD.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Very engaging!
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